I know it's been a month now since your bachelorrete party but whatever..haha! So sorry for posting so late. Honestly..I really have no idea what to write sebab I didn't do much pun....i just brought my makeup and susun elok2 atas meja. That's it. lol!!

Now..it's only erm...less than 2weeks before you officially become a wife. I'm sure you must feel so ecstatic! and nervous at the same time? hehe...Well, I would be if I'm at your place. ;)

With this, since I have your login (haha!! i suggest you better change you password. lol. ;p) I would like to take this opportunity to say something or give some advise..i guess? hehe.

Ikeen, being a wife is not an easy task. Just in a few while, you yourself will be a wife. And you'll be surrounded with wives complaining about finances, and how they wish their husband would help out around the house more. you'll hear the usual complaints about how their husbands do not do the dishes, or the laundry, or how they wish their husbands would change a diaper now and then. In time, you'll hear many of the wives complain that their husbands spend too much time on the computer, or they sit around the house on the weekends, or do nothing but watch football. Believe me, even though i'm not a wife (yet!), I have heard it all! :D Some of the largest complaints are how their husbands forget their birthdays or anniversaries. hehe.

Then, as you sit and think about all that you've heard, you can't help but smile. They have no idea how trivial and insignificant those things really are.

If your husband doesn't do the dishes today, you won't mind, because he has eaten the meal with us.

If your husband never picks up his laundry today, and even leaves his shorts on the bathroom floor, you won't mind, because today he took a shower at home.

If your husband never changes a diaper today, you won't mind, because today he is holding your child.

If your husband spends the day playing video games on the computer, you won't mind, because you able to see him relax..

If your husband lies around the house and does nothing today, you won't mind, at least he has the weekend off from work.

If your husband has his buddies over to watch football every Monday night, you won't mind, because he is home and you get to see him with his buddies.

If your husband forgets your birthday, or anniversary, you won't mind, because you know he always has the best of intentions at heart.

All those things won't bother you in the least. Don't fight over simple things like that, for the bigger picture is much more complicated. Everybody is not perfect, but he has his best intentions at heart. Remember, happy marriages begin when we marry the one we love, and they blossom when we love the one we married. :)

You and your Love, will have the very best days of your entire life. Your Love loves you sooo much tooo much even a blind man can see and feel how deep that love is. You have to do nothing but be grateful to have him in your life and he'll be the luckiest person on earth to have you by his side.

Happy Wedding Day Ikeen.

Lots of love,

Iza